Sunday, May 27, 2007

Hatred and Forgiveness

It is very hard to forgive those who hurt us, we choose to hate them till death.
Two reasons not to hate others:
  • Hatred is like preparing two coffins: one for the enemy, one for myself
  • Hatred will hurt the innocent surrounding people.
Benefits of forgiving others:
  • It is like releasing a convict from the jail, the convict is me.
  • Forgiving others to prevent myself from the endless suffering of mind , body and soul.
Although it is hard to forgive others, we can make it easier through the following facts:
  • Although we also hurt others, God is willing to forgive us.
26But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses. Mark 11
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Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

32And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. Ephesians 4: 31-32

  • When we experienced the love of God, we are willing to forgive.

  • God is fair, and He know how to judge each and everyone of us, when we took the matter into our own hand, we are replacing God.
19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Romans 12

We cannot forgive others through will power alone. When all else fail, pray.

"When every body in the world adopt the doctrine of "an eye for an eye", everyone will be blind"--- Gandhi

4And Joseph said unto his brethren, Come near to me, I pray you. And they came near. And he said, I am Joseph your brother, whom ye sold into Egypt.

5Now therefore be not grieved, nor angry with yourselves, that ye sold me hither: for God did send me before you to preserve life. Genesis 45

31Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

32And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. Ephesians 4

28And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Romans 8

Source: Goodtv

Five ways to happiness

  1. Free yourself of hatred.
  2. Free yourself of worries.
  3. Live simple.
  4. Give more.
  5. Expect less.